I posted a message on here about finding H with OW.
I was not surprised at all. I was hurt because it had taken me 5 weeks to see or here from my boys.
I decided it was 5 weeks to long and I drove to Houston, knocked on his door, introduced myself to the woman and told her I was here to see my children.
The door shut and for what seemed a lifetime I waited for someone to appear.
Out came my H. He was to say the least in shock.
He was acting like I did when I was caught in a world of lies.
I can't tell you the amount of BS I have heard out of him.
I wanted to rip him an new one. I could not.
When I saw him, all I wanted to do was hold him to tell him it was okay.
I wanted him to know that I am not here to hurt him anymore.
I am here to see my boys.
He seemed very upset when I left.
I don't know what to do to help him.
Does he want my help.
For 5 weeks he could have cared less about my feelings and how I felt about not talking to my boys.
Was he putting on a show because he knows I caught him in some terrible lies and with another woman.
I don't know how to act towards him now.
He seemed like he needed me.
I am totally confused and don't know how to react to him now.

You cannot do anything to change Empty or his actions. You can only change YOU. You can show him your changes, and see what happens from there.

Plan A luci. Be the best you can be. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Karen