HELLO, I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 4 YRS AND HAVE A WONDERFUL BABY. MY HUSBAND WORKS FOR A MAJOR CAR COMPANY AND HAVE TO BE IN A MAIN PLANT BY 2007. HERE IS THE THING, HE COMES HOME AT 3:00 AM AND TELLS ME THAT HE IS MOVING TO A DIFFERENT STATE 8 HRS AWAY, AND THAT IS IT. I HAVE 2 KIDS BY MY FIRST MARRIAGE AND ONE IS IN HIGH SCHOOL AND ONE IN MIDDLE SCHOOL, WHICH THEY DO NOT WANT TO MOVE,AND THEIR DAD WILL NOT GO FOR IT, AND ALL MY FAMILY AND SUPPORT IS HERE. I HAVE ALWAY LIVED HERE. OUR MARRIAGE IS NOT THAT STRONG IN THE FIRST PLACE, HE IS ALWAYS KEEPING THINGS FROM ME, HE TOLE ME AT 3:30PM TODAY THAT HE WILL WAIT TO SIGN THE SHEET UNTIL AFTER THE WEEKEND AND I FOUND OUT AT 6:30 TONIGHT THAT HE SIGNED IT AT 3:00P.M TODAY. THIS HAS ALL TOOK PLACE IN LESS THEN 24 HRS AND JUST SICK ABOUT IT. I WAS PLANING ON GOING TO RN SCHOOL AND NOW HE SAYS THAT IS OUT OF THE QUESTION. SO MY DREAMS UP IN SMOKE. I NEED SOME HELP WITH THIS ONE.
I DO NOT EVEN WANT HIM TO COME HOME AT ALL, AND IF HE DOES NOT GET PICKED THIS TIME, TO ME THE DAMAGE IS DONE. YOU JUST DO NOT DO THAT TO YOUR FAMILY, THAT IS A MAJOR THING AND IT NEEDS TO BE TT ABOUT BY BOTH AND FAMILY. ALL HE IS SAYING IS THAT HE HAS TO DO IT, BUT HE HAS A JOB HERE UNTIL 2007.

Hi kimbr..i dont know how to answer you. Maybe you should explain more. Is husband having an affair?

He is moving for his job, the kids and I will not go for about a yr, due to that I'am going college and I would want to wait until next summer. We Have trust problems now. He does not alway tell me everything, then I found out and you know..

He signed a paper to tfer to diffent plant w/out talking to me about it first, and us working something out and wants it is signed you have to go or have no job at all.

He will send all p/checks and will live off set amount in other state and will come home every weekend not working. He still have have reg here and just work in other state.

I know that this is something that he has to do, but I do not like the way he did it, and with the honest thing he has, I do not if we will make it a yr apart.

I told him that if he really loves his family then we will have to walk the walk and talk the talk and we will see how it goes.

Kim