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I'm sure some of you are familiar with my story already, and I feel like I keep asking the same questions. I'm just not getting the answers I need and could really use some direction. We are planning to see a MC, but we just haven't found a good one yet and in the meantime I'm going crazy!!!
As some of you know, my H had an A with my blood sister. I have no problem cutting her out of my life and sticking with H thru all of this. BUT, I do have a problem with being betrayed by not 1, but 2 people I held very close to my heart.
I really need to hear from anyone that's been betrayed this way. By 2 people. I feel like I have to deal with the betrayal twice and that's really hard. Am I just being a crybaby? Please feel free to be as brutally honest as possible. Thanks in advance!
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I have not been in your position. I know a lot of folks here have been betrayed by best friends, but not sisters. And no, you are not being a crybaby. I think the double betrayal has to be harder.
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No you are not being a crybaby. You were hurt by the people who are suppose to love you the most, and to feel bad is normal. I think the MC is a good step, you need to let out all this hurt and pain. I think trying to feel better too early is not good. You were hurt to the core of your being and that deserves some time to come to grips with. But it is a good sign that your WH wants to try to make it work. That is a positive, you are now in control. Best of luck to you and take the time to cry, it helps!
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