I've been searching the board for similar stories like yours. I have a question, that I need answered.

Pepperband - your H had an A with his BF's wife? Is that right? My question is do your H and BF still have a relationship or is there NC between them also?

Spider - Same question basically. OW was your supposed BF, right? Do you still talk with her or NC as well?

Thanks for any insight.