Yeah, I've had that thought, often. Her D and SIL, when they were in town, tried inviting me out for dinner a couple times -- I suspected that was why. D and SIL I think drew a bead very early. But they can pay for their own therapist.

Don't think OW is quite that rational, but I think she's figuring stuff out and wants a reality check. She'll have to draw one from another bank. Unfortunately, though others have pieces of the story, I'm the only one that has the whole encyclopedia. (For alternative motives, see other thread.) She's never been married, I think she has a foggy notion of it all.

Metaphors are getting mixed.

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