I'd be interested in finding out how you get phone records.

I posted to someone's thread.

You got to WS's cell carrier's web page. You register as the WS using your e-mail address. You create your own password.

Of course if spouse has already registered it's a bit trickier and luck needs to be on you side. Go to the web site and try to login. Guess the password. Try their bank pin number, birthday, adress numbers, also strings of numbers 12345etc or 09876 etc.

If you have access to WS's e-mail account & if you still can't get in, tell the website that you can't get in. They'll send you a reminder, hint or even the actual password.

BTW, the tactic above is the same for guessing v-mail passwords.

That's how I confirmed the affair. One day after discovering cell phone bills, I noticed that the W had a voice mail. I picked up the phone and with the adrenaline pumping dialed up the message center. I tried the bank pin and bingo.

I was rewarded with the OM's voice reciting poetry to my wife. Some drivel about her smile reminding him of the beautiful sunshine.

Be prepared to be heartbroken.

cwmac