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<small>[ September 14, 2004, 02:36 PM: Message edited by: Tenn25 ]</small>

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<small>[ September 14, 2004, 02:38 PM: Message edited by: Tenn25 ]</small>

Hi elane,

I was actually thinking of starting a new thread entitled: WS and Porn...Any correlation?

Since my WH has met and involved himself with the homewrecker,I have noticed he has been logging into some free porn sites and he of course deinies what I find,he always had an excuse.The latest find was just last night and I was fuming.He left this link on our home google search bar and if my oldest daughter searched there,she would have seen it and perhaps logged on! I was MAD.I was away too so that just made me even more anxious when I leave my girls in the care of this adulterer.

Anyway,the last time my WH and I "made love" I too felt as though he was somewhere else and perhaps thinking about homewrecker.It wasn't as fulfilling as the first few times after the second time he came home to reconcile.But that was just the beginning of the real ending for us both I think.

O

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<small>[ September 14, 2004, 02:41 PM: Message edited by: Tenn25 ]</small>

I will try my best to relate to this but I am A BH so it may differ some.. As far as sex,,, while my wife was having her affair she displayed all the signs of a woman having an affair but only after I exposed her affair did I reflect and understand her sexual behavior. My wife did not cut off sex but rather increased it,, and when it increased she showed more intensity to me and allways wanted to know that she pleased me. We never had a dull sex life but she definately changed her bed habits toward me,, ofcorse I felt like it was great and she loved me so much that her love reflected in the bedroom. So u see sometimes its not the lack of performance but the improved performance that indicates something is not right,, ofcorse us men will not ever figure that one out until it happens and we find out the true reasons behind her sexual behavior. Just trying to reflect to your post from my point of view.

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<small>[ September 14, 2004, 02:43 PM: Message edited by: Tenn25 ]</small>

Hi elane,

I just wanted to post a quick note that I have been looking for that website I mentioned but have yet to find it. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> It may have actually been a book that I saw.But,I will keep trying and let you know.

I can only make heart shapes,bow ties,stars and squares out of dollar bills but I'm not sure if having that ability is what you were looking for.

O

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