My WW is in the fog and has been poking at me for weeks now. Showed up at our church with OM, Showed up at home at 2:30am dumped the other dog for me to watch without asking, has been meaner and meaner the nicer I have treated her etc. Today we were talking about the D and how we will split things etc. My dad loaned us money for a down payment on our first home ei $27000 ok. We signed a loan agreement on it. Today while talking to her she said how it wasn;t notarized (found out that doesn't matter in AZ) and implied that she was intitled to that money too. Like she would try to steal it from him. She also talked rudely to me and I became more and more angry and she said I don't need this and started to leave as she was leaving I lost it in public and yelled calling her every name in the book. I couldn't control it. I have been holding in my anger so long now and she has been soo unresonable. Anyway, I am starting to feel like I don't need someone like this in my life who can do this to me and then try to walk all over me. I changed the locks on the house and put the majority of her stuff in the garage. i have had enough. being nice wasn't working at all. Maybe this will?

Sorry to hear things are still going down hill. I had a similar thing happen last week. It didn't seem to matter to her if I was mean or nice to her. She still talked about D but has yet to do anything about it. That was the only time I said anything mean to her. I know this is hard for you, but try and do the best you can. You don't want to push her away. You will want to look back at this in 10 years and say you did everything you could. WS seem to think of nothing but themselves and and that is very frustrating to us BS. You never now what might happen to turn there alein brains back around to reality. I say this because last night I found out my W lost her job because of what she is doing. Know lets see if OP can support her financially. I don't think so. He now has alot more responsibility than he expected. So hang in there and don't give up. Stop LBing, exspecially in public. If you want to talk you can email at stichizzy@yahoo.com