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I have given my wh an oral plan b letter and it seems he has chosen to leave. I gave him 2 weeks to get his things togehter and find a place that will be this sunday. Fathers day. I did not realize nor plan for it to be this day it just fell that way. He has asked for it to not be this way so shoul;d I give hime till monday? or Not? Also we have a wedding on the 26th tht he wants to attend. Part of me doesn't want to take away from the bride and groom with a bunch of people wondering where he, wh ,is if he soesn't come but since he will be out should he come? Also he has discuss taking money out of our stock acct to live on. Should I allow this or contact a lawyer and freeze the accts?
I need some advice and qyuickly as the day is drawing near.
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You SHOULD write a PLan B letter before you do anything else and post it here BEFORE you give it to him.
Besides, how would Plan B affect Fathers Day?
Also, do you think him attending the wedding while having an affair makes sense (no it does not).
Weddings are about sharing your life with ONE person. HE is not doing that now. No, you should not allow him to go to the wedding with you.
<small>[ June 16, 2004, 12:16 PM: Message edited by: Chris -CA123 ]</small>
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