About a month ago you said that you too had dealt with a criminal mind where OM was concerned and offered to talk with Mrs. E. You also gave me a website to have here visit but I have lost all of that info and at the time she wasn't interested in either, but now she would really like to speak with you if the offer still stands and I would like to give her that website.

Let me know that you got this and I'll send you an e-mail address.

Thanks, your insite was most helpful to me and know it would be even more so to her.

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E, I am so sorry to take so long! I hosted a pool party for what seems like half my son's Jr high class and didn't get here this AM.

I haven't had time yet to check your thread so I'm not up what's happening. I've been wondering how you guys were! Yes of course I will speak with her, no problem. I'll check your thread now ok? (I probably should have done that first but my head is on backwards today. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> ) KB

HELLO KNEWBETTER! This is Mrs. E. I am truly appreciative of all the support you have given to my husband. He showed me your postings and our situations are so much a like that it's scary! Honestly, I would love to talk to you! My e-mail address is: earhartabstract@washingtonks.net.
I can honestly say, besides the death of our infant son, this is the most confused and sad time in my entire life! THANK YOU so very much for offering to talk with me. I certainly need someone to talk to that understands. AND YES, MR. E IS my knight!!! Why he would want to continue life with as my husband is beyond me. Look forward to hearing from you!

Welcome to you,Mrs. E!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> I'm SO GLAD you're safely home. Your husband is a great guy and it is a relief to hear that you are together. Your story scared me from the start.

One odd thing you'll see over and over on these boards is that in the begining each of us (BS and WS) think our own situation is unique and special. It's eye opening to find out there's nothing new under the sun. It's also comforting in a strange way.

I have walked in your shoes and yes, you and I sound very much alike! As triggering as this is for me personally, if I can be of any help to you, I consider it a privilege. My H and I are two years into recovery now and there are days where it all seems a distant dream, almost as if it had never happened. On others, I feel like I'm reliving the trauma all over again but in the end I KNOW I am healing.

I WILL SURVIVE THIS AND SO WILL YOU! IT'S GOING TO BE OKAY.

Part of that healing process is reaching out to others and I'll be sending you an email today. I'd like to encourage you to consider posting here as well, if you feel comfortable. You will find that the board is very supportive of former waywards. A repentant heart is the most beautiful thing, as my H says to me. Check your mail this afternoon ok? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> KB

Edit for a P.S. Mr. E, can you keep an eye out for Eric N. You guys are in the same boat, he could use some encouragment.

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