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A single night of excessive alcohol, sex with another woman (not all the way but that doesn't matter), and i shattered her world. I always felt we never had a reasonable frequency of sex - weeks and weeks in between. Now, i love her desperately, but i can't see her ever wanting to be intimate with me at all... i am such an idiot and i cannot fix this... lost in space

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I love her,

did you see the responses given in your other thread... 1 night of stupidity
i know you are new, so i wanted to make sure you were able to re-find your original topic

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FL, thank you, i will check that

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Well really, all the reasons that you stated about the infrequency of sex have no bearing on what you did. You did what you did and that's all there is to it. Your wife only sees that her H had an A with another woman and cast her to the side.

It will take a long time to prove yourself to her and to win her trust again. Stay in there. Don't cop out on the whole sex thing. I'm sure there were some other problems there that run deeper than the sex thing. Not being judgmental, but there almost always are.

God Bless


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