Hi all,
I wanted to tell you about two dreams I had the other night. The first one was about Marriage Builders. In the dream, my husband "called" the MB and wanted me to listen to a message from some woman....he handed me the phone (actually it was a microphone) and the woman told me to hang on for a minute. So I wait, and after 10-15 seconds I start hearing this snoring coming through the phone...the woman either fell asleep or pretended to! So I wait for ten or fifteen minutes for her to wake up, but she doesn't, so I go to my H and tell him and he says "Just keep waiting, there's a point to that...it's part of the lesson!" I never did find out what that was....I hung up.

Next dream was so emotionally packed it really had an affect on me. I was at home, out in the back yard....it was dark. I heard something in the woods, and decided to come inside. Just as I made a move toward the door, this "THING" started to come after me. I don't know what it was, I never actually saw anything, I just knew that it was BAD and it was after me! Let's call it an Unseen Force...chilling. Anyway, I got to the door and had my back pressed against it and starting screaming "HELP!HELP!" over and over. I could hear running inside our house, and just in the knick of time, my husband opens the door and pulls me inside. At that point, my husband was shaking my arm asking me if I was ok, because I was making weird noises. This was so weird, because when I woke up, it really felt like he had saved me. I started to cry and I couldn't get close enough to him. i was even afraid to go back to sleep for a while. I don't think I'll soon forget that dream....maybe there are some paralells to our situation and they came across in my dream. But after that I definitely was seeing him in a different light...definitely a BETTER light.
What would Freud say? Nevermind...

I should add here that my husband just had knee surgery (in reality) and couldn't run very well if he wanted to....so that was significant, too....I was afraid he wouldn't be able to help me in the dream because he was "crippled". I guess that means something!

Only words,

Don't have much to give in the area of dream interpretation, so no major insight there.

Just wanted to respond and say that I am glad to see that you are still coming here and posting. Seen far too many people come here for a short time and then just disappear.

Its encouraging to have you here.

Don't ever want this to be a place just for BS to come and whine and complain to each other. Makes me feel good when any WS can come and get help as well.
Because that is the true calling of this place.
Help for Both sides.

Also nice to read (from your other current post) that you feel comfortable enough to try and make light of things. To me, just being able to even try to engage in some humor, is a true indication of your progress.

With that said, Hopefully you and Rec H are still reading, learning and implementing the concepts from this website.
Because although the Discussion forums are great places to ask questions, get support and be an overall place to vent......the true heart of this place is in the MBers principles.
Hope you BOTH are continuing to gain understanding and use them in your M.

Wishing Rec H a speedy recovery from his surgery. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
Again nice to see you back here. Keep us posted! Later