So many people helped and supported me along my journey. I'm curious to know where they are and how they are doing?

Does anyone know?

WAT
Faith1
Cali
Layli
Spacecase
Orchid
Sadprincess
LovesHerMadly

Thanks,
Llama

the only ones that i recognize are WAT and orchid. but i haven't been here as long as you <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> so at least those 2 are "around."

Hi llama,

I just got done reading all your posts.I am sorry that you ended up D'd but you sounded better toward the end of your replies.

As RR mentioned,I have seen WAT,Orchid and I have seen cali once or twice,also faith1 I think but not the other's.I don't know them but maybe WAT or Orchid will let you know.

How are you now by the way,2+ years later?
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Llama,

SC started a website which is where you can usually find him hanging out. It's at
www.iloveulove.com

llama - sadprincess as far as I know is still happily married - just recently moved to a new state and bought a house - but I don't think she has been on for a long time....

Oh, and here's one more...whatever happened to toomuchcoffeeman?

OK then whatever happened to Honey - and then later on NutCheerio???

If you want to see if someone is currently posting, or what they last posted, the forum has a directory feature found at the top of each page.

Type in the name you are looking for, and you can see "recent posts" by thread title and date.

I recognize the names, and can add that Cali has been posting in Recovery fairly recently, but I don't know about the others.

Hey Maw and Csue - I remember you two!

Yeah - what about Honey and TooMuchCoffeeMan?

Octobergirl - thanks for your note. I post more on the divorcing board now.

My life has turned a 180' since my divorce. It's amazing what time and healing can do.

LLama

Hi LL,

Good to hear from you. Sounds like you are doing well. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Good news always makes my day. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Thanks for asking, I am doing ok. Life seems to always have some sort of trouble in my way but we are stepping over it together, as a family.

H broke his leg back in April and went back to work end of May. I got my lay off notice and it will be EOM. My mom had a double bypass and well it is time to move closer to her and my dad.

Despite that and the dysfunctional relatives who have that never ending problem called immature life, things are doing fine. LOL!!!

One thing I learned here @ MB, it isn't healthy to dwell only on the negative.

Most here heal and move forward. I see you are doing that and I am glad.

Imagine how we all have been and where we are now. I know I didn't expect to be ok as quickly, though I wanted everything instantly. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

As for WAT, he is out cruising the Bahamas or somewhere in the Carribbean. He won't be on MB for a few more weeks, I think. Faith1 is around but she has been having her hands full, helping others out.

Cali still posts more on the recovery board. I frequent GQII. I don't post as much, tend to keep it to the evening when I have my time. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Hope this helps.
L.

Honey and NutCherios became Faith4Me and something like subfd. Anyway, subfd started a thread a few weeks ago on whether you would prefer divorce or an affair, Pepperband started a new thread saying that she was concerned about his rambling replies, and someone reported both of them had been kicked off the Website.

I did a search on TooMuchCoffeeMan and when I did he had a somewhat abrupt ending to his postings.

People do change their names, which can cause confusion as well. I did that when I started MarriageBuilders. I was "broken heart and arm", and in my first e-mail to Dr. Harley, he recommended a name that looks to what I want in the future.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Cherished:
<strong> Honey and NutCherios became Faith4Me and something like subfd. Anyway, subfd started a thread a few weeks ago on whether you would prefer divorce or an affair, Pepperband started a new thread saying that she was concerned about his rambling replies, and someone reported both of them had been kicked off the Website.

I did a search on TooMuchCoffeeMan and when I did he had a somewhat abrupt ending to his postings.

People do change their names, which can cause confusion as well. I did that when I started MarriageBuilders. I was "broken heart and arm", and in my first e-mail to Dr. Harley, he recommended a name that looks to what I want in the future. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Honey and NutCherrios are not Faith4me or sufdb. Those are 2 completely different couples. Haven't heard from Honey in a long time. I was thinking about her the other day too.

As for TMCM, not sure about him. I thought I saw a post from him within the past month, not sure though.

It is hard to keep up with everyone with sooo many new names on the board.

L.

hey llama...

I still lurk frequently and post infrequently.

H and I are in a terrific place. For the first time in our marriage we are both working equally to be the husband and wife that God calls us to be... not what we THINK we should do or, what we THINK is EXPECTED of us.

We purchased our own home about 1 1/2 ago and are now talking about improvements... painting, tiling, backyard...

The boys are growing and keep us busy w/ their activities.

Memories of 'princess' have faded and I have to think really hard to remember her face or her voice. She and her H have divorced and are now deep into the custody battle phase. He still keeps in contact (rare) and let me know around Christmas about the divorce and that she had remarried about a week after the divorce. She left the school district that I still teach in... so I could exhale... chances of me seeing her lessened.... though she still lives in the next town...

Clinton's book and my BILs recent 'cheating' on his girlfriend have opened up the communication lines even further. He talks about where his head was then. He was deeply depressed and unhappy... he had no real goals and was drowning... to see me succeed in my career was a double blow to someone w/ his issues. OW 'listened' to him, when I was pretty much tired of his BS and just wanted him to make a decision and LEAD his family....

We never did formal counseling, but I did IC and several groups @ church going through Cloud & Townsend's books (Boundaries, Safe People, etc.) H actually asked me if I wanted to sign up for a one-day conference "Rekindling the Romance" and we are going to join the Marriage Ministry @ church.

God has blessed us in many ways.

How are you?

Cali

Spacecase is D'vd, and in another relationship. I get this 2nd hand, so 2long can correct me if i am wrong.

He and his W are still friendly, but she continues to chase the convict that is still in prison. I don't think she has ever "gotten" it.

Space seems fine from what I hear about him, but he is in a new life, and is looking foreword. I haven't seen him on MB for quite a while.

SS

Thanks, Orchid, for the information. Both couples were abusive, and I knew that there were name changes, and I made an incorrect assumption.

Wow - it's great to hear from some of you! It never ceases to amaze me how far we've all come.

Thanks,
Llama

Hey 7 months later but it proves I still come back and check these things so just thought I would say hello. Hubby and I are still together and happy. Hard to believe it's been 2 years. We still have moments, some things are rebounding a bit slower than I would like. (our intimacy levels) But we are still applying what we learned here. I hope you all are doing fabulous.
Much hugs,
Layli