My H and I are falling in love again . He called me twice today and told me he can't get me out of his mind. Says he feels like he did when we were first together. I too have felt the same way the past week or so. I really think that this seperation and this affair he had with OW has made our love stronger. I'm not letting my guard down totally yet but maybe we are on the right track. I'm hoping that it won't be to long when we both decide it's time for him to come home and for us to be a family again. The last two months have been the longest of my life but I have learned some really valuable lessons about myself and my marriage. I know for a fact that if it hadn't been for marriage builders I wouldn't even be close to reconciling. You great people have kept me sane and in control. I'm so grateful to all of you. I know that we have a long road ahead of us yet but I think that we have climbed the biggest hill. I feel that I have totaly forgiven him for this. I may never forget it but I hold no ill feelings for him only love. Thank You again to all those that have helped me.

YIPPEE!!!

WOW! <sniff> Beautiful!!<P>Best wishes to you and... I envy you.

Oh, Jill,<BR>I ma SOOOOOO happy for you. You deserve it my friend. You have been such a great help to me, I will never forget your friendship with me during this time.<BR>You are an inspriation. <BR>I am envious <BR>Keep falling in love.<P>Cheryl

cw, you have worked so hard for this moment and I am so very appy for you!!

I am so happy for you. I wish you both the best of luck, life and love. Keep us posted.<P>------------------<BR>That which does not kill us, will make us stronger.<BR>* Viki<P>

I'm so very happy for you !!!!!<P>It helps me carry on!

cw...I am so happy for you. I understand how you feel when you say that you have no ill will towards H now. I too will never forget what H did, but I love him and don't want revenge anymore...I think that is called "forgiveness".<P>------------------<BR>Joan

I'm very happy for you. It is so refreshing to hear good news. Gives the rest of us hope for the future. Congrats!

it really is exciting and amazing, just wait until he is home - it felt like our honeymoon all over again!!!<BR> don't feel bad though, if the pain comes again to visit - it passes, just keep enjoying every wonderful feeling---forgiveness does have its rewards!!!

I'm so glad this is getting resolved! YOU are happy, and hopefully all those small town nosey gossips are cheering for you .<BR>Good Luck!<P>------------------<BR>for better or for worse, in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer, till death do us part.<P><BR>

And if they aren't, don't worry - you got us!!!! <P>I just am so happy for you and your husband.<P> <BR>

Thanks everyone! Yes I am very happy He is staying with us this weekend so I guess that will be our first test. Thanks again for all of your support!<P>Jill

YAYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!<P>Lori

Jill, <P>Can you fill me in briefly on your separation. Where does he live? How long has he been gone? How did he get over OW? How did he fall in love with you again? How did you handle the separation, how did you treat him?<P>My h has been gone for 2 1/2 weeks. He rented an apartment, bought furniture. He spends alot of time with us as our children are very involved in sports. He is in love with the other woman but loves me just not the way he should. <P>Can you give me some insight as to how you think you got to where you are now? I'm praying for the day that he is "in love" with me again and wants to come home. I just need some inspiration.

I'm so glad it's coming out so good. I told you it could happen, and I'm glad I was right.<BR>My H's affair has been over for almost a year and we're still feeling like the honeymoon is not going to end. And yes our marriage is much stronger today than it was in all those years back, even when things were fine.<P>Good luck for the weekend. Just live it. Don't try to analyse anything or to see it as just perfect - if it is then it will feel even better -. Relax and have a good time.<BR>A big hug to you<P>Kat <P>------------------<BR>Each and everyone of us is deserving of a kind word, a gentle thought, and the gift of understanding.