Well everyone I'm giving up on my WW I'm done, I've come to the conclusion that life is to short and I don't think I could do recovery anyways. Have her pineing over OM, you might as well lock me up now in the padded room. After a month of thinking and finding out that my W is a serial cheater I'm going to give her the DV she wants because this will make the guilt she feels now go away NOT. She's the one who is filing for it online which is fine with me. I've been thinking that since we don't have any kids and she's willing to give me the house and all the furnishings in it I'm ready to move on with my life. I will find someone down the road who will respect me and love me for the rest of my life. I don't consider this an ending but a new begining for me. Thank you all who read my post, I will stay on here to read posts and stuff like that. I can't leave my MB friends. Oh and just to let you know I don't feel bad about this at all I know the big guy upstairs has a master plan for me.

<small>[ June 24, 2004, 12:13 PM: Message edited by: The Tinman ]</small>

There is so much more out there. And who knows what path life will take you down, but I believe you are stronger for it. And your next relationship will be that much better, because you have the tools you need to make your relationship more worthwhile.

I know this must still hurt on some sort of level... you may want to hold tight and prepare for some feelings that come out of left field... a mourning of your relationship with your wife, a realization that the dreams you had started with her are not going to come to fruition, and the uncertainty of the future. But from what I know of you, I am confident that better things ARE out there in the distance for you. Unsolicited advice from me would include healing whatever else is hurting inside of you, so your future relationships are more apt to suceed. And venture forward bravely... you are a sensitive, committed, romantic (hello, all those poems on the site) funny man that will make some lucky woman very happy one day. And then you can get back to creating some new dreams for yourself and your future.