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#1150714 06/24/04 12:32 AM
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Hey gang,
Haven't been around as often as in the past. Sooo, hello to all the cyber helpers and friends. BTW, thanks to all of those who gave me positive feedback on the "Have I helped..." thread. KiwiJ, Lisa103, MrsX, Knewbetter, Anyname,RecoveringH. Hello to my new friend Hopeforthefuture, too.

Give a quick update everybody....

OK I'll go first.

Wife and I are doing better. We worked thru the "time at MB" issue. All in all things are good. Still the occassional miscommunication that will cause a bit of heartburn.

Communication is improving. The wife even called the IC for an appointment to work on her a bit. That helps a ton bc I feel as though she's trying to change instead of requiring me to do all the work and changing.

Whose up next?

cwmac

<small>[ June 24, 2004, 12:34 AM: Message edited by: cwmac ]</small>

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That would be me.

I don't know if I want to be included in cw's pack. Smacks a little of "harem" if you ask me. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Did you see I put the "Tempted Woman" on the thread "Seeing his car...."

It just says it all.

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BTW did you see I got a job at the university. Assistant to the Professor which is verrry cool. Can't say which department (well its Arts) but can't define EXACTLY which department. I'm pretty traceable already with my picture, birthdate, city etc - I don't need to make myself COMPLETELY traceable.

You do know the remark about the harem was a joke don't you. AND you left the Geography of NZ course half way through the semester. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

I can't WAIT to work at the university. I'll be involved in orientation and graduation and everything. It will be so cool.

Jenny

<small>[ June 24, 2004, 02:38 AM: Message edited by: KiwiJ ]</small>

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<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

I'm happy to report that I managed to make it through another month of PMS with no fatalities. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Glad to hear that you and wife are communicating well!!

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KiwiJ,

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Did you see I put the "Tempted Woman" on the thread "Seeing his car...." </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Unfortunately no. I haven't been lurking or posting as often.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> BTW did you see I got a job at the university. Assistant to the Professor which is verrry cool. Can't say which department (well its Arts) </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I hadn't. That's great news. Something you can sink your energy into. My W has talked about getting a part time job for a few years but never seems to follow up on it. If she'd had the job maybe... Never mind.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You do know the remark about the harem was a joke don't you. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Yes I knew it was a joke. The reference in the post title was my own tongue in cheek reference to something that had been said to me on the "Have I helped..." thread. Something to do with I just come here to converse with my clique/groupies ie FWW GFs, whatever.

I didn't mean it as an attack to the person who said it. Just my sarcasm coming thru.

Hopesalive,
Whhew, one more week that's great. Glad you survived. Seriously. I can't relate to the PMS but I can relate to being depressed.

Did any other MB posters get in your cross hairs during the week? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> Just kidding.

OK gotta go since I'm limiting myself to fewer hours. FYI, it may not be until late tonight or sometime tomorrow before I come back and respond.

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Gee,I wish I could be as funny as you guys! Hope, you crack me up! Congrats Jen on the job, it sounds great, right up your alley.

Summer's here so that means beach, beach, beach! My hugest problem this summer will hopefully be how to avoid getting TOO tan! I love my life again, no drama, no feeling like each day is going to bring some new painful disscussion. We are both doing great.

Cw, so glad you guys worked out the time issue, think of it as a nice, big deposit in the Love Bank! It's all for the good. Best, KB

Edited to take the serious stuff out. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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Knewbetter,
Stick with KiwiJ and you'll be the life of the party.

cwmac <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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That sense of humour is going to get you into big trouble one day, mister.

Oh, wait, it already has. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Do you know I still laugh when I think how you set up and executed that whole "hick" gag.

Can't stay on long tonight (sigh of relief from cwamac) to give you one of my interminable and probably extremely boring lectures tonight. Just wait till I'm working at the university, I'll be even more interminable and boring.

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You are the perfect univ. employee. I always got good ZZZZZs in my early am classes after long nights of drinking and debauchery.

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Luckily they won't let me near a lecture theatre. Completely admin.

Well, this groupie's got to sign off. H will be home in minute and I'd better think about dinner for him. I had lunch with my old office lunchgroup today and they gave me HEAPS (kiwi or US expression?) about my new job.

Said I'd be turning into a pinko radical before I knew it.

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Jenny...HEAPS must be a kiwi expression. I like it <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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"gave me heaps" obviously means they teased me mercilessly but when I thought about what the expression means I couldn't even think. I mean, heaps of what...?

I'll have to ask D. She usually knows. Or maybe one of the Aussies can tell me.

Jenny


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