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Thanks ahead of time for your prayers with my situation. I have went to church all my life but lately I haven't gone as much. I know God answers prayers I seen so many miracles in my own church not to believe. Please pray for my situation. My children need their dad and I am 5 months pregnant and don't need this stress. My WH left for the weekend to hang out with his friends but I think he may have met OW after 6 months of not seeing her. He has not called since yesterday morning. I think he needs prayers. I think at this point only God can help and turn this around for me. Thanks again!!!
<small>[ June 26, 2004, 05:11 PM: Message edited by: SadMarylandLady ]</small>
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Dear SML,
I have just seen your post before logging off for the night, and just wanted to reply to say I am thinking of you now and praying for you and your H and your difficult situation.
I know I am a FWW but please accept my thoughts and prayers. I am trying my best in recovery and forgiveness for what I have done.
Please hang in there and take care of yourself. You are so precious to God SML.
I hope you don't mind me posting to you.
Love and prayers,
Kas
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I have no idea what God's plan is for me, so when I go to church I pray for WH to find his way back to his morals and values and for God to take care of me and my baby during this time. I don't know if it is his plan to make our marriage work (I hope so but I do not know) so I just pray for the strength to get through this time and do the right thing.
I will think about you tomorrow. Hang in there and take care of yourself. I am so happy you have your Mom with you for support during this weekend.
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Thank you BV you brought tears to my eyes... I am glad I found this site because right now I would be such a mess trying to do this alone.
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Dear SML,
Glad you still there, and hanging on. My heart is heavy because I haven't actually posted to many BS's before....
I guess I may not be very good with it, because of my shame. Thanks for replying to me. I really appreciated it so much.
In everything you do you are NOT alone. I know people here care for you and your pain, and I know I care for your pain, though it breaks me up a bit to read how sad you must be in this, especially as I am a FWW.
I know by your reply to me, it seems you are a tender and kind and forgiving person. You could have felt like 'shunning' me and I would have understood.
Pain is so hard. You have reached out to me despite your own painful situation with H.
I want you to know how much that meant to me.
Thank you
Kas
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BV,
I tell my husband all the time and family members that might say something about him. I tell him he is and was a good person just a person that made a terrible mistake without thinking about it. Just I hope one day he is remorseful like you and willing to get help and work on his marriage.
I welcome all advice. Sometimes a WS can give me perspective into things that a BS cannot. Thanks for your prayers, support, and advice.
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Originally posted by Broken Vessell:
" You could have felt like 'shunning' me and I would have understood."
BV ... we love you. You are repentant. You are reaching out to help others... WE LOVE YOU!
You are going to become a great asset to others once you get time and distance between you and your affair.
Trust that HE has his hand on you and is guiding you.
We see you standing in the light. And we rejoice for your recovery.
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SML....
I pray for you to receive
strength
serenity
grace
peace
I pray for your WH to receive
understanding
clarity
a path to redemption
Love,
Pep
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i am so sorry for your pain.but i know god will help you,your children get past this.BUT i cant help but to think so bad of your H doing you this way with a child on the way.i will pray for him so he will see his wrong doing and be the man he should be and give you and your kids the love you deserve
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Dear SML, Am glad I saw your post before I logged off for the night. I was right. You must be a very kind and loving and forgiving person to say what you have done: “I tell my husband all the time and family members that might say something about him. I tell him he is and was a good person just a person that made a terrible mistake without thinking about it. Just I hope one day he is remorseful like you and willing to get help and work on his marriage” <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> I am so touched by your response. That is actually how my H responded too. He has the same heart as you in it. I pray for you each night after I have sent my post to you. I admire your strength and your kindness. Your gentlness and love comes across. Please know people care for you. You have some good, wise and loving people posting to you I have seen. Take care, Please always post and never let things get too much for you will you? Kas
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Dear Pepperband,
I had to do my last post for the night to you…Thanks so much for your kind words. They are an encouragement to me and they have given me something which I lack a bit at the moment; HOPE
Hope – that I can find my way back to serving God and be in full repentance and restoration.
I want to so much.
How much?
My head tells me that my commitment to my recovery and the time I give to it,and my M and God……will decide How Much I Really Want This…..
Thanks again,
Kas
Ps I WAT still there and OK??
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WAT is holidaying in the Bahamas.
Sorry for the threadjack SML.
Jenny
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Dear KiwiJ, Thanks, I am just getting into my pjamas, whilst WAT is having a great holiday in the bahmas,.. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Well I have found at last how to do a smiley, so am sending one to you all on this thread now, then I will definately go to bed!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> love to you all, especially SML, am praying now, Kas
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