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he left again to be with the OW and he says he is in love with her and he isn't in love with me and doesn't feel the same about us but he still loves me and will always love me. He said it may not work with the OW but he never gave her a fair chance so he needs to do that. What do I do try to be his friend leave him alone, don't call and don't answer unless its about our child someone help me.
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Joined: Jan 2001
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It is very difficult to be his friend, so don't. You are tied as parents and financial obligations. The H & W bond has been broken morally but not legally. So that part (legal) you still need to deal with him (communicate as needed).
I posted to your earlier. Can you do this?
Read Surviving an Affair by Dr W Harley and Love must be tough by Dr James Dobson. You will learn how to handle the situations you are and lessen the pain.
L.
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