I used to come here faithfully. Years 2000-2003, I even went to a marriage builders weekend, alone. My ex-husband came home to make things work and left 2 months later with OW on the 4th of July. Destroyed me and my daughter. I don't hate him by anymeans, but I also wish that he would at least aknowledge that what he did was wrong and that he hurt our little girl and me at the time. She still wants mommy and daddy together, though now I don't. EX-H and OW are now married, they got married in Iraq while they are there fighting, he is planning to move her and our little girl into our old home. I don't know why, but this bothers me. I currently have graduated from school and have a great job as a Massage Therapist, none of which I could have done if my marriage had made it and if my ex-inlaws weren't kind enough to watch my little one while I went to school, why does his marriage bother me and him moving our daughter back into the house? Why do some of the most wonderful efforts fail? For the ones reading this that are struggling, my best to you and sucess and beautiful things come from fighting for your marriage, just don't lose who you are and that you are a person reguardless of what happens. And heaven forbid yours is one that doesn't make it, stand tall, you did nothing to be ashamed of. And don't turn your back on God, I did and I am having a hard time turning back around.

Hi,

Well I just asked how you are on the other thread but I see that you posted your story here. I am sorry he chose the bad way out but you were able to move forward.

As for the loss, well that is t/b expected. He is moving the OW into your home? What a weanie.

Your little one must be a big girl by now. How is she doing?

F&H, you have not failed in anyway. The closure of your M is not because you didn't try. This rests squarely on the shoulders of the WS who is now in a doomed R. The best thing is to keep your daughter safe so that when the A self destructs she will survive as you have.

Lots of love to you and your little one. Good to hear from you.

Please e-mail me at MBorchid2@yahoo.com. I have a work related question for you.

thanks,
L.