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<small>[ August 06, 2004, 03:07 AM: Message edited by: brownhair ]</small>

Hi S&S,

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Does this ever happen? It seems like everyone's stories usually start with "Well, I showed him the evidence....." and not "He came to me and spilled his guts and asked for forgiveness..." </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">For me it did. My W lived with the guilt of multiple A's from April 1990 to December 2000...

The guilt was just too much for her to deal with and she finally confessed to one A that I suspected, and several others that I never had a clue about.

Looking back, I knew that things just weren't "right" in our M, but I was determined to be the "best" H that I could... I started working on my anger, made a point to NOT hold her one A that I knew about over her head,... basically, I was in Plan-A w/o knowing about Plan-A.

Also, I prayed that God would heal our M... Little did I know what was in store for us over the next two years... but I can tell you from personal experience, all of the pain and hard work that we've done, has been worth it...

Work on being the best W that you can be, and trust in the Lord to turn your H's heart around... It can, and does happen!

Semper Fi,
RIF90