My h and ow and her soon to be ex all work at the same place. H swears he never sees her anymore. The soon to be ex came back to work this week after being off on medical for 2 months. My h and ow's soon to be ex work in the same room together, just the two of them for 12 hours evey night, h said that he told him everything about how he had went by her house to see her and how he wanted sex from her but she said no. But I'm not sure I beleive him because everything I have heard about this man is how jealous he is of anyone talking to his wife and I think if my h told him everything the s--t would have hit the fan, instead the man told him that they could still work together but he had better stay away from his wife. My h says that he no longer wants her and he THINKS he wants our marriage to work. My problem is how to get past the fact that he wanted her instead of me and he would go see her and then come home and have sex with me? And how do I know he isn't waiting for her divorce to be final and then he'll want to try again with her? He says he feels lost feels like he doesn't know who he is anymore. Also I have thought alot about having to take care of myself if our marriage doesn't work so I am going in monday to have my tubes tied while I still have insurance, this makes him very mad, but I know I don't want more children and hav'nt had to worry about it because he had surgery 19 years ago, now I may have to worry about it again and i'm just trying to cover myself. Am I so wrong about this?
luvybug