If you have not read last posts, My husband works at a resort where I know many of its members. One being the OW. I go out there to do different activities and have seen him a few times and we have talked since D-Day(last week). It is so hard to act normal around these people, I just am not ready to let everyone know yet. He cheated and knows he must resign or he will be fired. Should I continue to go out there and face these same people, who will eventually know and wonder why he is gone. He is still not saying much, just saying he is unsure but wants for us to both be happy again and neither of us are now. He means together or seperate, just happy. I want it to be together and know that. He is the one who cheated and has to quit his job for this and he does not know what he should do? I guess he says that this is not the life he wants, but he does not know what he wants. He says he does not love her, and never did, he said they just were both depressed and confused and hung out and talked and had sex? I think the connection and talking hurts more than the sex. They went away a few times. He is not staying at home because he says that makes it harder on me. He is not with her, she is married and out of town right now. How convenient. Who knows what will happen when she gets back. I should not want him there until he says he is 100% committed to me and only me and has told her the same. I really need to get stronger!!!

Please start in Plan A. That will help you the most.