</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> She is not much at home, most nights coming home past 9pm. Only one night did she stay out all night. What is she doing? She tells me see is working out LA fitness, getting her hair done, nails, shopping, going over to friends houses, etc. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Ok I feel like I'm living my A all over again and this is typical. If she says she got her hair done does it look different? Does she come home from shopping and have purchases? Do her nials look done when she comes home? If not I can garentee that she is still seeing OP and hasn't stopped. If it looks like a duck ......

Don't sell your house if you have to seperate let her move out. If she gives you the speach where she says I love you but I'm not in love with you and says that your M isn't working out and that one of you have to move be nice and tell her "I'm sorry you feel that way I prefer that you stay here and work on our M but if you can't then I will help you find an apartment and move your stuff there." That way it's her decision and not yours to move out and puts all the responsability on her.

Hang in there and read up on this sight. I wish you luck.