A few things...

Spoke with OM's W on the phone for several hours last night. As a SAHM she fears that she has to file soon, because OM is strongarming her about $, witholding needed funds and threatening to sell her car, which is in his name.

If she can get the MB login process figured out she may appear here soon. She logs in successfully, but her posts don't come through. Does she need cookies on, maybe?

Last night we agreed to do everything we can to make our Ds take as long as possible, without really telling our spouses that's what we're doing. But nothing has been filed by anyone yet. I will not file.

I think part of the reason the sparrow seems so guilt-free right now was because I told her I've decided I'm going to forgive her. I think I went too far in saying this.

Another dilemma. I'm going to record a few songs for the sparrow as an anniversary gift. OM's W tells me he is probably showering sparrow with gifts right now, and he made her a painting when the A was starting. I need to outdo him, and I can, not in quantity but in quality, I'm sure of it. If I go into plan B before then, I can't give her this gift. My anniv. is on 29 July. If I need to plan B I don't know if I can wait until the end of this month.

GC