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Re: The OM's 2 OW : Would you tell your friend? #1154052 07/07/04 06:26 AM
Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 988 D dleightonc Member
dleightonc Member D Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 988	JL, You are right. OM has paid no price while I have paid with my health and family. It's just a game to him and a 'dream come true' for W. Here I come with the reality check...

Re: The OM's 2 OW : Would you tell your friend? #1154053 07/07/04 11:51 AM
Joined: Aug 1999 Posts: 15,284 J Just Learning Member
Just Learning Member J Joined: Aug 1999 Posts: 15,284	Since OM has done this before and he apparently works for Homeland Security, I think you need to discuss this with his bosses and with the appropriate security service. He probably has a clearance, and his behavior puts him at risk for blackmail. I don't know what organization oversees the security clearances for Homeland Security, but it may be the Defense Security Service, or perhaps the FBI if it comes to that. This man is a huge risk to not only your marriage, but to other people as well. This is NOT Las Vegas where "what happens here stays here." Disclose, this mess and get things rolling. I would also speak with a lawyer and get advice on what will need to be done to increase the odds that you can retain custody of the children. Must go. God Bless, JL

Re: The OM's 2 OW : Would you tell your friend? #1154054 07/07/04 04:30 PM
Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 988 D dleightonc Member
dleightonc Member D Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 988	bmp

Re: The OM's 2 OW : Would you tell your friend? #1154055 07/08/04 08:37 AM
Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 988 D dleightonc Member
dleightonc Member D Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 988	My friend may tell her today. I told her if she does, she must speak the truth in love, not malice (she's angry with W for W using her). Things will get hot, as I have some other bombs to drop (i.e. I'm fighting D).

Re: The OM's 2 OW : Would you tell your friend? #1154056 07/08/04 08:53 AM
Joined: Mar 2004 Posts: 1,753 A anyname Member
anyname Member A Joined: Mar 2004 Posts: 1,753	She's not going to like having contracted an STD from him. She's most likely got Herpes, or Warts. If it's Warts then she will have to be monitored by a gynocologist for some time to come as she will be at risk of cervical cancer. Genital warts is the only reason women get cervical cancer. If it's Herpes, then she will get painful break outs of the virus from time to time and possibly transmit the virus to future sex partners, which is you if she ever wakes up. She can also transmit warts to future sex partners. She's starting to be the recipient of what you sow you reap.

Re: The OM's 2 OW : Would you tell your friend? #1154057 07/08/04 11:47 AM
Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 988 D dleightonc Member
dleightonc Member D Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 988	Ouch. It astonishes me that she could find her self in this situation. She's a Family Physician who counsels people on safe sex every day. The fog is thick in A's...

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