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JL,
You are right. OM has paid no price while I have paid with my health and family. It's just a game to him and a 'dream come true' for W. Here I come with the reality check...
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Since OM has done this before and he apparently works for Homeland Security, I think you need to discuss this with his bosses and with the appropriate security service. He probably has a clearance, and his behavior puts him at risk for blackmail.
I don't know what organization oversees the security clearances for Homeland Security, but it may be the Defense Security Service, or perhaps the FBI if it comes to that.
This man is a huge risk to not only your marriage, but to other people as well. This is NOT Las Vegas where "what happens here stays here." Disclose, this mess and get things rolling.
I would also speak with a lawyer and get advice on what will need to be done to increase the odds that you can retain custody of the children.
Must go.
God Bless,
JL
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My friend may tell her today. I told her if she does, she must speak the truth in love, not malice (she's angry with W for W using her). Things will get hot, as I have some other bombs to drop (i.e. I'm fighting D).
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She's not going to like having contracted an STD from him. She's most likely got Herpes, or Warts. If it's Warts then she will have to be monitored by a gynocologist for some time to come as she will be at risk of cervical cancer. Genital warts is the only reason women get cervical cancer. If it's Herpes, then she will get painful break outs of the virus from time to time and possibly transmit the virus to future sex partners, which is you if she ever wakes up. She can also transmit warts to future sex partners. She's starting to be the recipient of what you sow you reap.
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Ouch. It astonishes me that she could find her self in this situation. She's a Family Physician who counsels people on safe sex every day. The fog is thick in A's...
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