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PRAISE GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WH confessed to his A which was my heart's desire!

We now enter recovery.....

Long story short, I prayed and prayed for conviction. And that tiny little mess up when he sent us both the same email and I asked him about it...well, that was the start of it all. He got scared (convicted) and it just kept snowballing. We talked over 4 hours on the phone today in 3 separate conversations, and at 11:45 pm tonight he confesed to his A without my having to tell him I knew or having to confront. I just kept asking for complete honesty. I was actually in the middle of reading to him an article about Reestablishing Trust in Your Relationship

http://www.covenantkeepers.org/articles/re-establishing_trust.htm

and he told me. After about another hour of crying and talking, I finally feel the hope that Dr. Harley talks about. I never would have beleived that I would again love him after the hurt he has caused, but now...now I have an amazing fountain of love. He asked why in the world would I take him back and how could I ever love him again. I told him that Satan had tried to steal our marriage and he failed. God's word says he will restore 7 fold what has been stolen, so I told FWH (NOTICE THE F!!!) that as far down as we have sunk, we will rise to 7 times higher, and that is the hope that renews my faith.

OK...I could just preach right now (maybe I did?) but what I want to say is my God has always been faithful. He has never let me down, and even when I think he's left me to steer through the pits of hell alone, He has been there the whole way, guiding me.

I love my husband again.
I love him again.

I can't believe it.

A joyful
Trina

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I'll state the obvious. Take it slow and get ready for some bumps. And congratulations; that's wonderful news.

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