I thought it would be fun to dress up as a scary clown and jump out when OM goes to his car after work and make him wet his pants.

My dad told me about a TV ad where some guys open up some dude's car door and seal a fish inside it.

GC

I don't know about revenge ...

Simply that my ex-husband is living with the OW is poetic justice enough IMVHO.

It's a prison of his own making. And I suspect it's a life sentence. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

If you really want to get revenge on your WH, a very effective method is to create a nice, slow-burning rumour, that will eventually reach OW and any other OWs he has in his sights. With a bit of luck, he may also recieve distressed phonecalls from his family, and lots of whispers behind his back.

Dont tell everyone, just a few people who you tell in confidence, but who you know will tell someone. You know the sort. Be genuine and act concerned rather than malicious.

The rumour could take many forms. I like:
-He's gay and over-compensating
-He has a 1 inch floppy
-He frequently calls out his mothers name during
sex
-He is into hardcore wife-swapping
-He was born a woman

The list could go on. Mwa, ha, haa...

Seriously, though, I believe a little plotting can be healthy in that it does cheer you up a bit, but the need for revenge can become all-consuming, so must ultimately be avoided. (Just for those americans who take us sarcastic brits far too seriously!)

Love to you all xxx

My revenge story--after D-Day, WS went to talk with OW...she was with her "companion" who is supposedly gay. When WS approached them, the companion threatened to kick my H's a** and H left. Later OW's companion filed a false battery charge against WS which he is still trying to clear. WS is obsessed with getting even with the companion.

A few weeks ago, WS and I attended an event where he saw the OW's companion. WS pointed him out to me, and we watched as the companion walked by. WS did not have courage to confront him. Must thank companion for small taste of satisfaction.

Well, this is not something I did, but an item currently up on ebay (check it out quickly, it could be removed) is a surveillance videotape of a man's wife having sex with her OM in a car in a parking lot. He says he is selling it to finance the divorce!

ebay auction link (Auction title is Surveillance video of my soon-to-be-ex-wife in a car.
Co-starring her married boyfriend)