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Moderators please remove ALL of my post from this board.

I am OW and WS and am trying to work on my marriage (husband verbally abusive and I fear telling him of affair). I have ended the affair. I have asked for God's forgiveness, but apparently people here think I will burn in hell because I have not confessed to my husband.

I have even been told I dont care about my husbands salvation and that hurts deeply that someone would say that!! I know I have wronged my husband (by comitting adultery) BUT I also know I pray for our marriage and for his salvation daily. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

I will NO longer post here and seek advise. PLEASE remove all post from me.
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Born, I'll move your 2 recent threads to mod storage.

It isn't in the power of the moderators to remove all your posts.

You can, however, go back to your remaining posts and edit them. You can find them either by searching your member number or by clicking on the sunglasses & then recent posts.
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The affair happened because of issues in your marriage, which can only be repaired if both partners are onboard. You will not burn in hell if you don't tell him, but why hang on to the guilt by yourself. Your marriage will not get any better due to the fact that he will have no reason to change. Will he be hurt, yes. Will he leave you, perhaps. Is telling him the right thing to do according to MB's, you bet. Please reconsider your request to delete all of your posts and let us help you.
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fischer is right - you are not going to burn in hell. Please stay so we can help, I was in the same boat as you...
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By the way Born, if you are still there, I do know exactly where you got your article. In general that site and ours do not share posts or articles.

And, we do not want or encourage any kind of board war.

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