</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by MelodyLane:
<strong> You know, I have a funny feeling that the OW is making this all up. I suspect she made this up to get attention from your H and is now backpeddling before he can call her bluff.

I think a well timed phone call to the OW mother would probably be a real eye opener. A nice little phone call to ask what she thinks about her daughter's pregnancy with a married man. I betcha that would cause some trouble and embarrassment since I think it's all a made up story. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">This is just crazy enough to work!

I like it...

Pep

You guys are too funny! SUPPOSEDLY OW mother does know <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

PAF,
My bells went off on ONE thing here, you posted this ,

UPDATE! OW is going to get a test today to see how far along she is and she is going to see about not having the baby! I assume her little plan is backfiring big time.

How are you getting your information ? Is your H still in contact with her ?

That's a bell for me. No more discussions just the two of THEM. I'm being the devil's advocate....thinking through the mind of the OW (don't know, just speculating, never been one)... but here is what I think she is saying....

"This is between ME and YOU, your W has nothing to say, no opinions, and I won't deal with her, I will only deal with you"

See where I am going with this ??????

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You guys are too funny! SUPPOSEDLY OW mother does know
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">yeah, but who says so? The OW???

<small>[ July 07, 2004, 09:03 PM: Message edited by: MelodyLane ]</small>

No more supposin' PAF. You need to get info straight from the horse's mouth and not the [censored]! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

OW is not credible. Even when she may be tellin' the truth. Neither is the WS right now.

BTW, let WS know if he wants to chat with an xws, let us know. Got one here who is wondering what was he thinking?!??!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

U got sources at his work? This kind of stuff doesn't go unnoticed. If the OW is cranking up a story, don't be surprised if she is also setting the stage for some ROs, making up incidents to put on an act before the judge. The RO c/b for you or even the WS. The mind of an OW on the revenge is a dangerous place to be. Steer clear from her vengeful ways. Worse than those hurricanes you got down there.

Remember the OW in her little mind may feel she deserves your name and title. She may also feel she is entitled to your possessions, etc. So tread carefully. Take nothing for granted.

Don't want to spook you, want you to be prepared.

Hugz,
L.

Yes, the way I am getting my info is from WH who is back in contact with OW...Of course this is what she wants. She wants WH to leave his family.

I have mentioned that if she does have this supposed baby of theirs that from now on any communications will be done thru ME or thru our lawyer. She has no idea I have consulted one yet. and she WONT know...

The reason I have not stirred anything up as of yet...and believe me, I so badly WANT to call that OW or her mother, but the reason I haven't done it is because I dont want to spook her just yet. If she does want to terminate that PG then I dont want to scare her not to. Plus, it can backfire and she can use anything I say against us later in court if it goes that far.

As soon as she has said she has aborted that baby, WH is taking a PG test, with me, and have her take it in front of us. She will still show up PG 2 weeks after a termination.

I am betting she isn't even PG though and she is trying to stir up H's emotions just to see if he will crack. If anything this has made him REALLY WAKE up <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Orchid...you are always welcome to call us here. I will be out of comission for a few days, but H will be around all weekend if your XWH wants to chat with him. He is pretty much out of that fog he was in before!

This will be the last post until at least Sunday probably. Thanks so much for all your advice and support!

mom