I may be premature on this, I certainly hope I'm wrong, but I think WW is about ready to walk on me. She left to see OM last night (again no secrets, the whole thing is out in the open and she refuses to stop). I expected her home at a reasonable hour, but she didn't get back until 4 in the morning. I stupidly asked her what they were doing and she said, "Talking about relationships." I asked her what that meant, but she didn't want to talk anymore she was tired (imagine that...she has to work in less then 4 hours!!) She also said something about having to make some changes in her life that this wasn't working out for her (like it is a dream-life for me!)

I noticed some information on cell phones in her car this morning, which gives me the appearance that she is looking into her own plan and leaving the family plan we have. She has already opened her own checking account (as I did when this first started 5 weeks ago).

If she decides to walk, whether she files or not, is that my time to move to Plan B? Cut her off completely?

I'm beginning to think this whole thing is a lost cause, although I don't want to give up the hope that we can somehow work things out.