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#1157437 07/10/04 01:59 PM
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If I knew someone in that situation, I would definitely tell, and tell, and tell! Definitely tell. No matter what else happens, you'll have years and years of good feelings every time you think of how good you felt when you told!

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Interesting, piintheskeye. I agree with you that BS should be told, but it usually isn't something a person thinks about until they've had first-hand experience dealing with adultery.

Just curious. What is your situation?

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trollin, trollin, trollin, keep them doggies trollin.......................~~~~~ <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

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<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

ROFLMAO!

#1157442 07/10/04 05:30 PM
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I told and I'm STILL giddy about it 10 years later

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Yessireeitsme1964:
<strong> I told and I'm STILL giddy about it 10 years later </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Why would you feel "giddy" about warning someone they were being destroyed behind their back. I can see feeling good about doing a good deed, but "giddy?"

I find that very..........warped. To say the least.

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Giddy is how I feel whenever I think of it.

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Is it a full moon or something? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by piintheskeye:
<strong>Telling the BS!!

If I knew someone in that situation, I would definitely tell, and tell, and tell! Definitely tell. No matter what else happens, you'll have years and years of good feelings every time you think of how good you felt when you told! </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">What does 'Telling the BS!!" mean to you? Definitely tell what? Please explain what you mean by 'good feelings'.

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Anyone have any good recipes? That's all this thread will be good for.

#1157448 07/11/04 12:20 AM
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I dunno what Pi had in mind. All I can say is what I think of when I told. It was a great feeling, and it still is 10 myears later.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Yessireeitsme1964:
<strong> I dunno what Pi had in mind. All I can say is what I think of when I told. It was a great feeling, and it still is 10 myears later. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Pat,

Can you please share your story?

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My male Lamaze coach tried hitting on me and I told my mother and my sister (Amber). The coach was married to my sister's best friend's (Allison's) sister (Kristen) unbeknownst to him. It was apparently not the first time he had stepped outside of his marriage. It worked with the first woman, but it certainly didn't work with me. I was disgusted and in total shock, especially since I was VERY pregnant with my 5th child (a beautiful son, Kyle) at the time! In the end, Kristen divorced him and took him to the cleaners. To this day, my mother, Amber, Kristen and I are still giddy about it 10 years later. Last Kristen heard, her ex-hubby had taken up with an older woman (45) and she is supporting him. He's apparently still up to his old tricks. I heard he has a new girlfriend who's ready to tell his new wife. Wouldn't it be funny if someone told again?! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Once a dog always a dog. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

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