Became a member yesterday, and posted my first topic on Infidelity - Just Found Out. Last night I was freaked out when he didn't call, so I posted a reply to Believer. My WS called soon after that. Still very shakey, and in turmoil. Last night he asked me if I would meet him for breakfast with some other friends of our, so I did. As soon as I saw him, I kissed him and told him how much I loved him. Breakfast went well, then he asked me to go into town with him. We shopped, stopped and had a beer at a local restaurant, talked a lot (like we haven't done in a long time), then we went parking! Had a great time in the back seat of the car. I told him that he had no idea how much I love him and want him. No LBs today. Of course he went back to his apartment this afternoon, but I have hopes that things are turning around. He has a history with me, children with me, and now I'm showing him that I love him more than the OW does. I feel like this may be somewhat of a rollercoaster ride, but he is even talking about moving back home, and talking about future plans for us. Any words of advice about what may happen next?

So far, so good.

Please be patient, k. Live and breathe Plan A for a while. The fact that he is wanting sex is promising. Men must have their fix! Be as accomodating as you can. Make your homelife as wonderful as possible and he'll see that that's where he belongs.

It will take time for him to come back, so again, PATIENCE is the key. There will be ups and downs in this.

Post here when you get frustrated to vent.

Oh, and listen closely to anything believer says, she is a wise woman!

Sounds promising, but take your time. Hang out with us and we will help you through this. There is a whole gang of us going through the same thing.

I was quite concerned when I read your post in JFO.You have already contracted one STD...its not the only one out there.

You need to protect yourself from further infections.Having intimate relations with your WS is one thing, placing yourself at risk is another.Your health is very important.

Take care and please please please use precautions!At least until you are sure your husband is no longer Wayward and he has had a full health check.


Regads Max.