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LET IT GO For 2004
by Bishop T.D. Jakes

There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell
you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk.

I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you,
loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying
attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never
tied to anybody that left. The bible said that, they came out from us
that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they
been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John
2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if They are
not joined to you, you can get super glue and you can't make them stay.
Let them go. And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just
means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when
people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to
raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead.

You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've
got the gift of good bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good
bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and
I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if
it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was
never intended for your life, then you need to..... LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains.... LET IT GO!!!
If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your
worth....LET IT GO!!!
If someone has angered you..... LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge....LET IT
GO!!!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction.....LET IT
GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or
talents..... LET IT GO!!!
If you have a bad attitude......LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better..... LET IT
GO!!!
If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new
level in Him...... LET IT GO!!!
If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship....LET IT GO!!!
If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help
themselves..... LET IT GO!!!
If you're feeling depressed and stressed....... LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling
yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need
to...... LET IT GO!!!
Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new
thing for 2004!!! LET IT GO!!!

Get Right or Get Left...think about it, then LET IT GO!!!

<small>[ July 13, 2004, 10:54 AM: Message edited by: FeelinGuilty ]</small>

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Let it go.. let it go...

It's the same, but I have a song almost like that. Stop carrying the bags all the time. The past is really hard to let go because it affects our lives so much.. but if we keep on the past, we'll never move foward to better things. So I agree.. LET IT GO!

But we all have our time to "let go" There are some relationships that you we know is over and yet wants to hold on to them, but some needs work, we don't have to let go like that. But when its TIME.. its TIME!

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bag Lady...
You gone' hurt yo' back
carryin all those bags like dat!

Great Post!


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