little background: me and my H are together working things out he swears NC since 6/21/04 i've been trying to bein a plan A Buti still fear that he has contact with her at work. and i keep LBing b/c i suspect that he has contact and get susupious.

He is trying he has an interview next week with a very good job prospect and has been wokring hard to find a nother job he also has been trying to meet my needs as i am with him. we read his needs her needs. his biggest need he stated was he wnats to feel that were one and on the same page,so i'll have to try to wokr on that~

my plan is that i will not mention any voice of my suspiouns to him for the next 6 weeks. unelss i find concrete evidence (her number on the bill) i'll just write my suspioins in my journal , post hear or call a friend tOvent. and hopefully in 6 weeks he'll be in a new job and we'll be dong better with no lbing

any thouhgts?

Journaling is a great idea. Or you can come here and tell us about your feelings. But I would stick it out with no LB's for the next 6 weeks.

That's a good idea, I should do that... I know when my thoughts get the best of me, I start talking too much and it's jsut a LB for him. augh! I knwo you didn't mean to do this but thank you, I'm goign to follow your lead and jsut journal it instead of voicing it. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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BS 27
WH 30
Married: 8 years
Children: 3 and 1.5 and one on the way
d-day (EA) 6/7/04
Recommence NC 6/28/04

Journal and come here to vent about it. It really helps. When I caught WH and OW in bed, instead of having a fit, I could hardly wait to come home, get on the computer and tell everyone.