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RE: Now it's PORNOGRAPHY!
#1159714 07/16/04 03:28 PM
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Thanks to all for the advice on this new revelation of mine about my WH.

Am meeting WH this afternoon for dinner, and will follow your advice. 4th day on AD, hope they are starting to work some. Very agitated right now.

I will not use any LB's, but will listen as intently as I did they day he told me all about her, and that he loves her.

My greatest sympathy for all who use this site. This is by far the greatest pain, humiliation, and period of personal growth I have ever encountered.

Any further advice as I begin to slog thru this terrible mess?
Re: RE: Now it's PORNOGRAPHY!
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Let me rephrase the part where I said "my greatest sympathy to all who use this site."

THAT'S NOT WHAT I MEANT.

What I meant was MY GREATEST SYMPATHY TO ALL WHO HAVE COME TO A PLACE WHERE THEY ARE FORCED BY THEIR CIRCUMSTANCES TO SEEK HELP, as I am doing by posting on this site.

I did not know that affairs were so rampant, but do know now the horrible effects.

MY APOLOGIES FOR MIS-SPEAKING. I love this site. It and the advice I get from everyone is like a light in my darkest night.

AGAIN, my apologies. K
Re: RE: Now it's PORNOGRAPHY!
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We knew what you meant, and while we all feel like some sort of dysfunctional family (sheesh, I would like to see us at a Thanksgiving Dinner), we all kinda wish we would have never had to venture here for this help. I remember how simple my life seemed to be before all this happened. Now, it is forever more complex.

Adultery is cruel and selfish. And everyone on all sides of the triangle eventually realize it.
Re: RE: Now it's PORNOGRAPHY!
#1159717 07/16/04 04:14 PM
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You seem to me to be a dear, sweet, kind lady that would never want to hurt anyone...even anyone on this site, by saying something you didn't mean.

I hope you are not too critical of any little short-comings you have in this life, because WE ALL HAVE THEM....every single one of us.
As my dear grandmother used to say: "if we didn't have short-comings, we wouldn't have need of a Saviour."

As for porn, I don't see what anyone gets from it! It is the same old (well, not OLD)lol naked ladies and fakey sex over and over... What's the big deal when a man has a wife that can show him the real thing and he can actually make exciting & passionate love with her???

Sincerely, Julie <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
Re: RE: Now it's PORNOGRAPHY!
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No offense taken...
I think we all knew what you meant..
no one should have to endure betrayal by the one person we'd never expect

Stay strong and love yourself

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