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Earlier, posted here with Now it's PORNOGRAPHY!!!
Long story short - friends told me "gossip". I went to my WH with this gossip. Listened to his side. Told me it was all lies. He confronted friends on telephone.
Now my dilemma - I don't really know if he's telling the truth or not. He could have gotten that angry because he was "found out". I don't know. Like I said, only time will tell. I feel like stopping by the friends house and telling them I'm sorry for dragging them into this.
If this gossip is not true, why would they make something like this up to tell me? Some of the things he supposedly said to our female friend have the ring of truth.....WH has said the exact same words to me before.
This is the worst nightmare I've ever had. Should I talk to friends about this, or just leave it alone (and let them hate me)?????
Thanks, K
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Well WS's do get very angry when they are found out. And you can't believe anything they say.
I think you friends were trying to help you. You should talk to them.
I wouldn't tell WS anything again.
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Believer -
That's what I'm afraid of. As I said, time will tell. Just don't know if I want to hear it.
Will stop by and talk to friends today.
Thanks, K
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Let us know what happens.
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Part of the story was porn, did you check your computer for porn?
Search the video files, including the option of search hidden files.
Also check history, temporary internet files, cookie files, cache files. Depending on his internet explorer, you may be able to pull up his links.
If you find a lot of porn, there's half your answer.
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