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I just found out that my wifes boyfriends, wife will not turn in the divorce papers because she wants him back. She knows that he is seeing another married woman. Boyfriend also talks about his wife alot and tried many times to reconcile in their six month separation before filing for divorce although he tells my wife that he is over his wife. his wife cheated on him and wants him back. my wife is not throwing her self completely to this guy just in case he goes back. I think she know how to get him back , they were married 14 yrs and have 3 children. What are the chances

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swimmingalone ,
The chances of your WW and YOU or the OM and his W ?

Don't put much thought into that. Rest well that the relationship your WW is in with the current boyfriend will not last. I would almost bet on it. How can that guy condemn his own W but condone your W for the same actions ? He's got more issues than he lets on. 14 years is a long time, hard to walk away.

That boat has plenty of wholes in it. It will sink all on it's own. Don't worry yourself about it.

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thanks for that word of encourgement. i feel the same way. i actually think it is kinda funny because they are doing their thing and think it might work and I am waiting for the ship to sink. hope they can swim.

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Geeze.

What a tangled web they weave. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> All looking out for their own best interests I see.It may be time to go grab a bucket of popcorn for the next scene.

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yes very tangled..I will some popcorn and watch the Titanic------Jack hold on Jack(floating in the atlantic on a piece of drift wook)


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