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Yes I went down to domestic relations and counter sued for child support....Found out that WW only put down her school job and not her part time job she just quit friday that she had for 3 months.......he also did not report her job under the table as a scretary across the street from her place of residents (OM).......they told me to find out the name of that company....for the hearing two weeks from now........


I went by (OM) house and WW was sitting on her steps on the phone.......( To see if I could get the name of the company she is working for).........She saw me and howlerd were is my D.........I just kept on going........I did call her from my cell phone and told her that I am not keeping D from her, she can come up and see her anytime.........She said yeah right that I would start with her.....I said I would not do that and she could come to our house any time she likes.......I said why have you not called D and she said that she calls her a couple times aday and leaves message...I told her that that is not right .I told her that she did call D thurs, at 8:08 pm and that was it.I told hoe that I ask D to call her but D said no because she gets upset.........She said will you know were I live you could bring her down here......I said that I do not want to do that ,that i am looking out for our D welfare.....I told WW that I love her and D and that I think that it is D best intrest to not bring her D there....I said again that she could come see her all she wants at the house............I told her again that I loved her and that I think that it would be best if we did not talk to each other and that when she gets over this guy we could talk....about us,........And she said yeah right........She saID i GOT TO ADDMIT THAT YOU ARE REAL GOOD YOU EVEN CONVINCED YOUR SELF.......I told he that me and D did not ask for this.....She did this not us...........I said when you are ready to talk to R call me..........

She blames everything on me and that I destroyed her life...........Go figure..........3:00 go to lawyers office to give him his money and to sign papers for coustody............Wish me luck........Did I do the right thing by calling her...........??????

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Way to stand up to her, Frank!

The phone call gave you a chance to state your reason for not bringing D over their to the lion's den. I think you probably threw in too many ILY's, but that is JMHO. She's too foggified to give a cr*p right now, it seems.

Good luck this afternoon. Stay strong, be a rock, don't give up.

She's a real j*rk for omitting income. In Vermont, you can get into real trouble for that. Oh, what goes around, comes around, Frank, you'll see.

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Frank, you did AWESOME!! Great job in standing up for your daughter and yourself! You did excellent in calling her and telling her how it will be. You did a good job in making sure she knows that you love her and that you weren't doing this to punish her.

We will see how long it takes for your W to come down and visit your D now. Is she going to come see her or is she going to make excuses?


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