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WW metting with OMW
#1161031 07/20/04 01:16 PM
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WW just called me and said that OMW wanted to meet with her. Had something to ask her and tell her. She tells me that she dosn't know anymore than this. I fear for WW safty on this. I've been told that OM has told his W everything. But can not confirm this. OMW will not talk to me.
WW and I have been talking alot more and I feel very open about what is going on. But inlight to all that has gone on I have my concerns on weather it is more lyes.
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My advice is let your WW deal with HER PROBLEM. DO NOT BAIL HER OUT OF A SITUATION THAT SHE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR. There is a difference between being supportive and being an enabler. SHE needs to face the responsibilty of what her amoral actions have done to herself and the families involved.
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KnowTooMuch,

I have to disagree with Cymanca...if it's at all possible, see if you can go with your WW...that way you will get first hand information, and if you are going to "protect" your WW, then you will be making a major Love Bank deposit by doing just that! I don't see how going to a meeting with your WW could be called "enabling". It's called support in this case.
By the way, for me and my husband, NC meant No Contact with OM OR his wife. My husband said if she wanted to talk to me, she had to go through him first...as it is an indirect contact with OM...he did not want to be left out of the loop in any way, shape or form, and I don't blame him. I didn't see it as him "bailing me out" at all....but as his wanting us to be a TEAM in getting through this.

Just something to think about.

Good luck,

Onlywords
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When I had expressed my wishes in going, I got bit. "This is her problem and she has created it." Witch I totaly agree to. She has given me the time and place ad has promised to call as soon as it is over. It is highly public and in the eve. My true concern is OMW is just staring out in this. Her reactions are starting to grow and become very apparent. I've spant the last 2 mnths learning how to slow this A. Now I can see it growing if OMW is not careful. I pray her head is level.


If this goes right I think NC w/OM be here soon.

I dont get it though, WW has asked me for NC but she keeps calling me w/ this stuff. Then asks me to call her back. What is this thought???

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