First off, thanks to Marriage Builders for this board. The plans here are worth trying. Thats why I came here. In search of plan to recovery my failing marriage. But my wife is against any attempt for reconcilation so I have given up. She wants a divorce, period. I tried to show her some of the materials on the site, and she rejected it. No go.

Second off, thanks to everyone who responded to my posts with advice. Best to you.

Third off, thanks to everyone who post here with their stories, from which I have learned. I'm not alone.

Well, in my case its ended up in divorce.

I am now in negotiation with my wayward wife, who had an affair because I did not need her needs, and she is definitely looking for a new life without me. We are now negotiating the division of assets and support I will provide.

I look forward to a new life now. It could be very exciting and at once very strenous for a 50 year man. A big benefit, my only son of 19, are closer than ever on the breakup. Believe it or not he was the first to inform me of my wifes infedility. And I'm grateful to my close friends who I have confided in and given me support.

Thanks to all, and Marriage Builders!

My sincerest sympathies.

You sound positive and at peace about it. Especially the closeness with your son.

Speaks volumes for YOUR personal strength.

NCWalker