Hi All

My WW agreed to answer all and sundry questions I wanted to ask regarding her EA.

My problem is that I want to know everything in detail, but how to ask it in a non-LB way is the problem.

I thought about writing it all down and handing the list over to her, but I don't know whether this is the right way to do it.

The other thing is what questions to ask – Aaargh – I'm going off my rocker :-(

It might be a bad trait I have, but I need the answers to a whole handful of questions in order to get closure :-(

Short Background :
I was transferred to a new town in Jan 04.
Realized in May 04 that W is allowing OM (neighbor) to close into our marriage and going into a shaky business deal with OM.
I confronted the couple in May 04 and it seems that last contact between W and OM was early in June 04.
I have been Plan A-ing like mad since then.
In the meantime I've been working my backside off to move back to town of origin, which will happen on 1 Aug 04.
I have been traveling extensively over the weekends between the two towns with ( it seems ) good results.

Any suggestions, help, advice or just general conversation will be appreciated.

Thanx

CSU

If you need all of the details, you can write down questions, if you think you might LB. Then let her take her time answering them.

You can also do the emotional needs questionnaire here, and find out what yours and hers are, and then start meeting them for each other.