Nid, I pray to God you listen to Heroswife. She is exactly right. It may be the only thing that can save your marriage at this late date.

I did see your thread the other night, but when I saw that you still were protecting his affair, I knew there was nothing for me to say. I hope you do. Take care, Nid. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />