I REALLY DON'T WANT TO BE MEAN BUT I HAVE TO HONESTLY SAY THAT I'M SURE CHEFFY IS ANGRY AND UPSET. AFTER HEARING ALL OF THIS STUFF BEING SAID TO HER I'M SURE SHE IS EVEN ANGRIER! BUT THE FACT REMAINS THAT AFTER READING HER POSTS AND EXPLANATIONS SHE DOES NOT APPEAR TO BE CARRYING A FULL LOAD. I TRULY THINK SHE IS NEED OF SOME PROFESSIONAL HELP AND IN A HURRY. THIS OM ON THE INTERNET IS ALSO A JOKE. BUT THEN AGAIN, AFTER TALKING TO HER HE PROBABLY FEELS HE HAS A LIVE ONE HERE--NOT TOO BRIGHT, GULLIBLE, BUT MOST OF EASY.
I DON'T MEAN TO OFFEND YOU CHEFFY BUT I AM WORRIED THAT YOU ARE GOING TO END UP LIKE SOME OF THE EXAMPLES THAT HAVE BEEN GIVEN TO YOU HERE WHILE THAT HORRIBLE H OF YOURS WILL END UP WITH A REALLY GREAT GAL AND KNOW WHAT REAL HAPPINESS IS. IT IS TOUGH LIVING WITH SOMEONE WHO CHEATS, LIES AND SLEEPS AROUND WITH OTHER GUYS. HE HAS A GREAT LIFE WAITING FOR HIM WITH A "REAL GIRL" BEST YOU LET HIM GO. SOME DAY HE WILL THANK YOU.

I REALLY DON'T WANT TO BE MEAN BUT I HAVE TO HONESTLY SAY THAT I'M SURE CHEFFY IS ANGRY AND UPSET. AFTER HEARING ALL OF THIS STUFF BEING SAID TO HER I'M SURE SHE IS EVEN ANGRIER! BUT THE FACT REMAINS THAT AFTER READING HER POSTS AND EXPLANATIONS SHE DOES NOT APPEAR TO BE CARRYING A FULL LOAD. I TRULY THINK SHE IS NEED OF SOME PROFESSIONAL HELP AND IN A HURRY. THIS OM ON THE INTERNET IS ALSO A JOKE. BUT THEN AGAIN, AFTER TALKING TO HER HE PROBABLY FEELS HE HAS A LIVE ONE HERE--NOT TOO BRIGHT, GULLIBLE, BUT MOST OF EASY.
I DON'T MEAN TO OFFEND YOU CHEFFY BUT I AM WORRIED THAT YOU ARE GOING TO END UP LIKE SOME OF THE EXAMPLES THAT HAVE BEEN GIVEN TO YOU HERE WHILE THAT HORRIBLE H OF YOURS WILL END UP WITH A REALLY GREAT GAL AND KNOW WHAT REAL HAPPINESS IS. IT IS TOUGH LIVING WITH SOMEONE WHO CHEATS, LIES AND SLEEPS AROUND WITH OTHER GUYS. HE HAS A GREAT LIFE WAITING FOR HIM WITH A "REAL GIRL" BEST YOU LET HIM GO. SOME DAY HE WILL THANK YOU.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Definition of a "Crying Shame": A busload of lawyers going off a cliff with 2 empty seats!"
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Okay 2Long, you know I still hang out here...and I thought you were my friend!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

BB:

Hey, I did apologize! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

I should have probably said "busload of CHEEZY lawyers", though.

My apologies again.

ol' 2long <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />

Lawyers... hmmmm. I love lawyer jokes.

I've had occassion to use and be exposed to quite a few. They were all labor attorneys though. And I liked them all, principaled, idealistic, value driven men and women.

Not DV attny's. Can't say I even like mine. But from talking to him, I am very confident in him as a competent take no prisoners guy. Hate to end a 15yr M that way to my highschool sweetheart and the woman who was my first and only love. But fight fire with fire. WW is destroying everything I've ever held dear in my life. Never, even when I was young, wanted to be a bachelor. Nope, always wanted to be a family man. Like my own family. Gives purpose and meaning to a persons life. Wish I had 7 more children like the ones I have now. Then I could field my own baseball team! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

OK, it's 9:00pm. Free minutes start for WW cell phone. Guess I'll take the dog for the nightly walk and let her have her space.

Tom

It was so cold here last January, the lawyers were standing around with their hand IN THEIR OWN pockets. (sorry about the earlier post... I sure didn't intend to jeopardize your sitch...)

Stay strong!

SD

<small>[ July 21, 2004, 08:19 PM: Message edited by: shattered dreams ]</small>

Tom,

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> As far as getting worked over. I really am just concentrating on trying to be a good dad and pleasant husband. I only have a few months of my family left and I want to make those memories as good as I can, for my kids. So, yes - the WW will find ways to torment me. But I say let her find those ways. I will not give them to her. She won't be able to justify her adulturous behaivor, her meanspiritedness, her greed, her neglect, or selfishness on anything I've done.
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">This is an excellent frame of mind for your Plan A. I must say I am a bit surprised by some of the comments from posters suggesting that you behave any differently than this. No matter how poorly the WW behaves towards you, you are standing firm. I just want to offer you encouragement. Good Luck!

Came back at noon today from taking the son bike riding. WW was in D's room on her cell phone. Guess she thought I wouldn't "bug" the daughter's room.