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#1162550 07/24/04 07:34 AM
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Caught WW in a lie. Let me give the details.

Thursday night, WW brought a CD in from her car. I asked if she was going to copy them to the computer. She said they are already on there. I then asked if she was going to make a copy, and she said no.

The next morning, I noticed a CD in her purse (was going to leave a love note), and it was a copy of the CD. During the day I talked to her on the phone and asked her again if she made a copy, and she said no.

I think she made a copy to give to someone or to mail to someone, and that she lied to me so I wouldn't be upset.

I haven't confronted her about this, was thinking about waiting until Counseling this Wednesday, but not sure if I even want to bring it up for several reasons.

1)WW has yet to commit to the marriage 100%.
2)WW is expected to relocate soon for a new job, which may become a Plan B for me.
3)Next Sunday is my Birthday and I don't know if I want to deal with the headache the confrontation will cause with WW.

To be honest, I think we're done, and WW is trying to keep things pleasant until the new job comes up and she can relocate.

So, my question is do I or do I not bring it up?

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I don't think I would bring it up again. You already know she lied about it. You don't want a confrontation, would be too easy to start LBing once you confronted her. You already asked her about.

Let it go, in my opinion. Don't want to be fighting on your birthday.

See you answered your own question.

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Why waste your breath asking?
You already know the truth, besides she more than likely will just lie anyway. I'm sorry you're going thru this, but what's the point of putting yourself thru the pain of confronting her?

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OK RW, since no one else has, I’ll ask the obvious question. What was on he CD? And please! After all you’ve been through with this woman, PLEASE don’t tell me that you didn’t down load it and take a look.
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It was a Jeff Buckley music CD.


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