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Blessed Time ....... so sorry
#1162571 07/24/04 09:52 AM
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I read you just lost your son-in-law to an accident.

I am so sorry for your loss.... <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

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Re: Blessed Time ....... so sorry
#1162572 07/24/04 10:59 AM
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Thanks Pep.
It still seems like just a bad nightmare.
The call from my daughter at midnight and her voice in a soft whisper: "Mike was in an accident on his way to work."....Me: "Is he going to be OK?"....Her: "No Mom and then the sobs."

If ever there was a happy marriage and family it was theirs...Such a love for one another (married 13 years) with 3 beautiful children, ages 8 wks. to 5 years.)

We are all still in a daze...she doesn't want to be alone and people are there at her house ALL THE TIME...The funeral was BIG...he had so many friends....was so loved by everyone.

I heard her say once..."why couldn't he have been a bad husband, a bad dad, so I wouldn't miss him so much".....Of course, that was her grief talking...she wouldn't have wanted him any other way..
He always said he was in 'heaven' when he was playing with his 2 girls and new baby boy.

But life goes on...sorrows come and joys will come and we all just have to do the best we can...whether it is here at MB with cheating spouses or losing loved ones....
EMOTIONAL PAIN HURTS!
Again, Pep, thanks for your caring.
Love, Julie <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
Re: Blessed Time ....... so sorry
#1162573 07/24/04 11:17 AM
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Blessedtime -

I'm very sorry to hear about your son-in-law. My prayers are with your daughter and family.

Sometimes folks here think they would rather their partner be dead. But in reality we all know that would be much more painful.
Re: Blessed Time ....... so sorry
#1162574 07/24/04 11:20 AM
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Blessed:

Oh no... <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

My heart goes out 2 you and your family.

-2long
Re: Blessed Time ....... so sorry
#1162575 07/25/04 12:13 AM
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Dear BT -

You posted to me once and I so appreciated your thoughtfulness and concern.

I am SO sorry to hear of this. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

God be with you all. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

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Re: Blessed Time ....... so sorry
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So sorry, Julie. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

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