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I was talking to a neighbor female friend whom is married and was friend of me and WW.We have been speaking for the past 6 months....She told me a story about her sister whom got P at 15 and had a child and got married to this 15 yr old boy.......Well when she was 26 she left her husband and went with a younger guy she started dressing sluty and acting sluty.....She told her family that she was free and the family asked her about he then 11 yr old sun and she didn't even want him ..left him with his dad.......Well that relationship she left for lasted 7 months and then she left for another guy.........she is now 46 and is still doing it.......slep with tons of men...........never changed........
Well my friend told me that she thinks my WW is headed down the same road and I need to move on.........I am really depressed now..I hope this ain't my W.............She told me too get on with my life.............
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Well, Frank, I am telling you to stop listening to negative nattering na-bobs! She has NO WAY of knowing the future with your w unless she is Nostradamus!
We have seen FAR WORSE cases on this forum that eventually came back to their senses and changed their lives. Don't let her scare you with this anecdotal nonsense. She doesn't have a CLUE what the future holds.
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I think I am in love with you Melodylane......LOL you always know how to make a guy feel good I don't care what I say you put a positive to it........I that why in divorce busters they say don't listen to friends and family..............
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Thank ya, Frank! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
The standard advice from most people is "dump the bast**" or "dump the woman," they know of no other way! So don't listen to them, Frank!
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If I thought that she was that bad of a person believe me I would have not stuck it out for the long hall...................FOG
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AMEN Frank! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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Thank you I just got off the phone with mom and she told me that I did my part .......leave her alone......I keep pushing her....... if I leave her alone she won't have nothing to bi*** at him about me........... She knows what she needs to do............Don't puch her mom said .she said see what happen last week when you did not call her .........she called you asking questions......because you did not bother her and she was worried,,,,,,,,,do you agree.......
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Hey Frank, you and me feel the same way tonight. We should have gotten together for a beer. And stay away from Mel, I got the dilly on that...LOL. Just kidding Mel.
Frank, everybody told me to forget and move on, everybody is really saying it now that my WS came to me and left again. We can't listen to others, we must follow our hearts in this. Our WS's need us to pull them out of their troubled world.
At least that's how I feel. It keeps me going. Though tonight is a lonely one. Mel raelly does know how to pick you up. Keep talking.
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wow, Frank, I think your Mama is one smart lady! That sounds like a good plan to me. Joe <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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you guys are great.....I finally agree with mom........I will leave her alone.......let him dwell on it...........I know my wifw knows my D is in good handsssss........deep in her heart........
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