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Is there any WH out there who could explain the "fog" phase to me. I'm trying so hard not to listen to my H right now...he's in the FOG but it is so hard. I sent him a card and his response was "I believe in Fate and if it's meant for us to be together than we will be and if not then we will at least be happy individuals." He also came by this morning and said "you have a nice house". It's OUR house! I am so confused!!!!!
I just don't know what to do and how to deal with all of this. I don't know if I can handle this for 6 months....
[LIST] M...14 years
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lol! So some guy named "FATE" makes his decisions and not him? Does he have no control over his life? Is he hearing voices in his head??? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
Just shake your head, Tree, trying to use reason with a person who uses no reason is pretty futile. It will pass!
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On this thread some members have discussed and defined the “fog”. Hope you will find it helpful. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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He says he would be fine without me...that he wouldn't die...the sun will still rise the next morning. How can he say stuff like that???
I wouldn't die either but I want him in my life. I just wish this FOG would lift!!!!
I don't even know how to act around him when he comes by. I try to smile but it is so hard. It scares me because he is a very independent person and maybe he doesn't need me or want me. I guess right now I just need some encouragement and some success stories! I'm just sooooooo lost! I'm trying Plan A. It's extremely hard though. I find it very difficult to act like everything is ok and not talking about our relationship.
I'm having trouble keeping food down. I guess it's my nerves but any advise on what to do? I feel like my body is constatly shking. I can't seem to get a grip on that.
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