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I'm back to square one ... I happend to findout my WW did some Internet searches to find the OM work website. This site includes pictures, phone numbers and e-mail addresses. I think she might have e-mailed him too. She also tried to clear the browser history (obviously not all the way). What do I do now? I was really getting past all of this, but now I am back to square one.
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Have you confronted her with this?
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I have not but I will. I don't know if I am ready for the rollercoaster ride. I know she will try to turn it around again. You know that violating the trust/privacy thing. I am just going to tell her how I feel and not direct it towards her. She know's I am uncomfortable with her "friend", but yet she still feels compelled to keep contact with him. I'm starting to have panic attacks again and I could not sleep last night.
Any words of wizdom?
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Well....we talked last night. One of those late nighters. Everyone says it's a roller coaster. Yep, this is the second hill. She stumbled around with answers, but it dug a deeper hole for her and she new it too. I feel so bad for her. This is totally not like her. We are talking, but not like we were a couple days ago. She said she feel like she is on a leash and that I am making a mountain out of a mole hill (this is actually one of the Q&A's on the Shirley Glass website) I chuckeled.
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