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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by weaver:
<strong> You are a GREAT guy FamilyMatters!!!!

You are making your Mom proud! And everyone here at MB as well.

Hang in there,

Weaver </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Thanks so much Weaver...
I definetly need the reassurance...it helps more than you know.

A while ago I saw a bed I wanted...(box spring/mattress) I decided I would pick it up today..She won't even lay on it....
I asked her did she feel funny about sitting on it..she instead sat on the floor.. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
Hmm...somebody's feeling really dirty inside..but I'll try not to read into it.

I didn't do it to make any type of statement. I was just tired of feeling tired after a nights sleep. This mattress is so much better with all the little softy-comfy crannies..so much unlike the cheap piece I picked up when we split up 4 years ago.
I hate reading between the lies, and I know it's an LB, but what other reason can she have for not sitting on a brand new bed? Look no more springy thingys poking you..lol

When a fundamentally good person does the unspeakable they DO NOT need you to punish/bash them for their actions, they'll do a much better job themselves <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

we'll get pass this garbage somehow it would help so much if she would just talk and let it out.

I guess withdrawn people hate to open up.. maybe that's what withdrawn means lol.

Thanks for all your support.

I'm going to need it.

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FM:

You are doing a great job dealing with your painful circumstances. You are an inspiration to us all.

A successful BS simply cannot have any pride because we/they/us gave it up to save our/their marriage.

I agree with an earlier comment you made, when the BS gives up, it is all over with. We are the strength and only hope to keep the marriage alive and together. Even after the WS gives us no hope, we hang tough and take it.

I was lucky with my case yet I am still filled with doubt about everthing. I too am not going to give up without giving it everything I have.

Take care.

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